Discussing prematurely marriage, admitted or not, the
society of Madura is often shown as a good example. This is based on the
reality in Madura’s society dealing with marriage; many parents have been
seemingly nice to marry their children prematurely.
It is said premature because the child’s old is not enough
for making family. Usually, the two couples are still under 17 years old (a
phase of innocence and childhood). It is also said premature because many
families were failed in that. Violences and cutting human rights often exist
around the marriage.
The prematurely marriage is not something glad to do, but it
has to be avoided and hit so that it will not hold our young generation. The
prematurely marriage often makes future gone, and because of it, a young can
not do anything. Furthermore, according to expert’s opinion, the prematurely
marriage can cause undeveloping society in anyfield, such as education,
economics, politics, and in sustaining country’s development. The point is that
we have to avoid the prematurely marriage as well as we can.
In Madura, the prematurely marriage was operated long time
ago. It is not found in Madura’s today. I think, the case of prematurely
marriage, had not only been emerging in Madura’s society, but also in other areas
throughout Indonesia. It can be said finished since early 20th century. It
means after this country getting its independence at 17th of August 1945.
